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Colin's avatar

Curiosity over confrontation is also a good one. Just finished the rest of your piece. Similarly, I've learned a few of these lessons. A concept that also helped me:

"It's often better to get along than to be right"

It's much easier to let shit slide now

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Noemie Mooney's avatar

I'm so happy this resonated Colin! And thank you for sharing, I'm gonna need this on a post it notes :) It's really hard letting go of being "right"!

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Colin's avatar

Yea srsly. Idk taken me a gd minute now, just every day. There's a fansastic book that helped me (technically a Negotiations book). It's called Never Split the Difference if you're interested

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Noemie Mooney's avatar

Ohh I'll have to finally read it! It's been in my Kindle list for a while :) thank you!!

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